Library Review: Why Read?

I just got my very own library card! Woot woot!
I had one years ago as a kid, but it’s easily been over a decade since I’ve perused the shelves of my local library for literary treasures, and now I have three kids who all love books (although the youngest mostly likes to chew on them).

We picked some gems on our first outing to the local library, but I have to say, my kids’ tastes in books differ wildly from my own. Maybe they take after Daddy? Maybe they are just little? Who knows!

Here are the favorites from our first trip:

These were the instant favorites. Cute and funny! Both kids loved the Mo Willems book, my daughter loved the Olivia book, and my son loved Goose Needs A Hug.
These were the crowd pleasers. Everyone liked something about these two books, even baby Kristie!
This was by far the kids favorite book! They almost had it memorized by the time it was due! We even looked up videos of the real life sounds these animals make.

I love good books, I love to read, and I love to learn. Good books are a great step to having life long readers, and life long learners. My son is just learning the beginnings of letter sounds and that when you put those letter sounds together, you get words! He thinks it’s fascinating.

I don’t just think reading is important because I’m a mom, nor because I’m a teacher at heart (I did major in education). As a Christian, reading is crucial. Jesus is called The Word in John chapter 1. God has communicated through a book, the Bible. Reading is, quite literally, life and death.

My kids are just figuring out this truth. They see how our family prioritizes reading God’s Word most of all. They see me read my Bible everyday. We take the time to read The Big Picture Story Bible at dinner. We have Bible verses written out that we read and memorize together.

It’s important.

Read for God’s Glory, friends. Even when your reading Polar Bear, Polar Bear, What Do You Hear? for the fiftieth time that day. 🙂

Soli Deo Gloria

A godly friend, like Paul

The women’s bible study at my church is going through Philippians right now, using Melissa Kruger’s book In All Things. It’s been such a blessing to have this reminder to rejoice in the Lord Jesus no matter what.

Why? Because he is greater, he is worthy, he is worth it, he is with us, he is the reason and the end of all things, he is good.

Could we with ink the ocean fill
And were the skies of parchment made,
Were every stalk on earth a quill,
And every man a scribe by trade,
To write the love of God above would drain the ocean dry,
Nor could the scroll contain the whole
Though stretched from sky to sky.

– “The Love of God is Greater Far” by Fredrick M. Lehman (1917)

I read though the entire book of Philippians just to refresh myself of the whole context of the book, even as we study it verse by verse. As I read, I was receiving texts from two girls. I pray for both these girls on a regular basis, and with their texts in my mind this verse of Philippians really popped out at me:

“Therefore. my brothers, whom I love and long for, my joy and my crown, stand firm thus in the Lord, my beloved.” 
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Do you have friends you think of like this? Do you have friends who think of you in this way? Through out this little letter, Paul’s language shows that he really loved and cared for these people. 

It’s so interesting to note what Paul’s love for these people calls him to do, because it is so different from what the world says a true friend does. Paul encourages this church to stand firm in what they have believed about Jesus (that he is the only way of salvation), love one another, and rejoices even in their suffering.

Do we do this for our friends? Do we spur them on? Or do we pander them when they grumble? Do we actually talk with our friends about Jesus, about good theology, even in a casual way? Or do we “save” those conversations for the formal church setting?

Are we investing in the spiritual growth of our brothers and sisters in Christ? Are we allowing others to invest in us?

These are tough questions! They require messiness, uncomfortable conversations, personal sacrifice, and more! That’s hard friend, but that is what Jesus did for us (and more!), and that is what we, as believers, are called to. 

Let us, in the confidence we have in our savior Jesus Christ, Rejoice! Standing firm, united in love, and growing ever more like Jesus.

Soli Deo Gloria!

Persuasion – When it hit a little too close to home

I picked up (or rather downloaded it to my Kindle) Jane Austen’s book Persuasion because, although I have read it before, I couldn’t remember anything about it. I tell you anything about the book or even who the characters were or anything! I either didn’t finish it before, or I really didn’t like it. So, I decided to read it again.

Well, I just finished it, and now I know why I didn’t remember it from before. Before getting married, I identified a lot with the main character, Anne. I identified with her personality, and her heartbreak. This made this book painful to read, and it’s happy ending unfulfilling and unbelievable.

During this second reading of the book, I did the hard work I didn’t want to do the last time I read it. That is, examine my heart. Why did this book bother me so much? Why was it so painful to read? Why was I letting this pain bother me so many years later? Certainly I am “over it”! (Spoiler alert: I wasn’t really over it in my heart.)

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A quick summary of the book (so we are all on the same page):

Anne is the middle daughter of a baron. Her father and elder sister are obsessed with rank and status. Her younger sister is married, but her husband has no rank, only money.
Anne had been “attached” (that’s Austen-ese for “courting”) a man eight years prior to the book’s opening. He had no rank or money, but was just a low ranking officer in the Navy. Due to her youth, and his uncertain ability to provide well for her, she was persuaded by a dear friend to essentially break up with him. The friend believed that Anne was not worthy of him, and that being so young, a better offer would be coming her way soon (i.e. someone with equal or better rank and fortune to her father).
Anne never gets over the break up. She truly loved the man, and he loved her. She never gets a better offer.
When the book opens, she is living normal life when low and behold! HE walks back into her life. Drama, and emotional turmoil ensues for the entire length of the book, ending in a happy ending of Anne and HE getting together, engaged, and wed.

The first time:

In my original reading of the book, the emotion turmoil Anne experienced and the way she internalized all her thoughts, feelings, and pain, resonated with me deeply. I had done this. My own heartbreak was very different, there was never any attachment in my situation, my HE never felt the same way towards me that I felt towards him. Like Anne, however, I let it sit in my heart, fester, and ruin all other “possible happiness” – as Austen would put it – for several years. Our situations were different, but reading Anne’s feelings brought my own feelings to the surface again.

The second time:

This second time reading it (I just finished it yesterday), instead of remembering the plot, but I remembered how I felt before. This time, I could see through the fog of those deeply rooted, nasty, painful feelings.

I was bitter.

I had let heartbreak – a real, painful, unfair situation – dig into my heart and rule me. I let my feeling of bitterness towards this person for not loving me, rob me of the joy of loving others, harden me so as to keep me from being compassionate toward others, and keep me so focused on me that I would forfeit my college education – which my parents were paying for – to feel loved.

Reflecting now:

After reading, and enjoying, Persuasion, I see my younger self, and I am so sad. I am sad I let my feelings rule me. I am sad I wasn’t trusting God with my situation. I am sad I hurt so many people because I was focusing on myself.
But, I am also amazed. I am amazed my husband kept dating me even when I revealed my hurting, bitter heart! I am amazed that he married me! I am amazed that I am not that girl anymore. I am amazed that I didn’t do anything to deserve the love that helped me change. I am amazed by God’s grace that changed my bitterness into forgiveness, love, and joy. What He has promised to do He will do!

Philippians 1:6 “And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”

1 Thessalonians 5:23-24 “Now may the God of peace himself sanctify you completely, and may your whole spirit and soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. He who calls you is faithful; he will surely do it.”

I hope you are encouraged too!

Soli Deo Gloria!

We Belong Together – Book Review

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I just finished reading Jerry Bridges’ book True Community. This was my first time reading Jerry Bridges, even though I have heard many good things about his books. I was not disappointed.

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This book is essentially a “how to be the Church” book, as Bridges takes you through the New Testament looking specifically at the use of the word “koinonia”. Loosely, “koinonia” means fellowship, but clearly English really doesn’t communicate the word to its fullest meaning. It takes a whole book to just scratch the surface of the meaning “koinonia”, not even to flush out all the application of it all. It’s rich, encouraging, and convicting all at the same time.

I’d like to point out what was most encouraging from this book and most convicting.

What was most encouraging from this book was how much my church does “koinonia” well.
Theologically, our church teaches and preaches the union that Christians have with God because of Christ’s work on the cross (i.e. the Gospel), and that therefore we are united to one another. This is the core of what true community is, and this is the central point of Bridges’ book. Without union with God – without the restored relationship, between God and man, that was severed by man’s sin, and healed by the work of the Redeemer, Jesus Christ – there is no point in writing his book. True community, true fellowship, true, good, wholesome relationships cannot happen without the people involved being transformed by and united to God in Christ Jesus their Lord and Savior. The leaders of my church not only know this, but teach it constantly. It’s wildly encouraging.
Practically, because our church, its leaders and its members, are solid on the theology above it plays out in their lives. Discipleship within the local church body; the spread of the Gospel around the world (i.e. discipleship within the global Church body); sharing physically and financially with the church; sharing physically and financially with those in need around us, not necessarily in our church; supporting our church leaders; support through prayer, physical needs, and in being with those who are suffering; serving one another; social gatherings and fellowship time are all not only evident in my church, but also some are growing by leaps and bounds.
Like I said, it’s wildly encouraging.

What was most convicting was seeing areas of my life where I could grow. A specific area for me is investing in relationships. I am naturally an introvert, so developing relationships can be challenging for me. I have to remind myself that God has wired me this way for a reason. Additionally, being an introvert does not define me. I am not an introvert, I am a Christian, and as a Christian I am called to “make disciples” (Matthew 28:19). In order to make disciples, relationships must be formed, developed, and invested in. This is my weakness, but with His help, I’m working on it.

Christianity is more than a religion. It is meant to be more. It’s a people. It’s a community. We Christians are meant to be together. To live together, to learn together, to grow together. That is what this book is all about.

Click on the title of the book in my first paragraph to get a copy of your own!

 

Soli Deo Gloria!

Words, Words, Words

As a stay at home mommy with two babies under the age of two, my days are often filled with noise, but not necessarily words. My oldest is just starting to develop a vocabulary (with syllables that mean words, but not quite words, much less sentences), so I’m really the only one saying much of anything around the house for most of the day.
I am an introvert, so this is exhausting for me. However, I have found help in books and music, words that someone else can say to me!

How do I find time to read? I have very sacred times of my day when I dedicate myself to my books. These times are few, and sometimes very short, so I don’t just read anything.

I thought I’d share what books I have been reading, and music I have been listening to. I figure it’s worth my precious time to delve into these books, maybe someone else will be inspired too 🙂

My “real” books:

IMG_20170403_140438My bible; Colossians and Philemon: Completion and Reconciliation in Christ, by John MacArthur; Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family, by Paul David Tripp.

My electronic books: read via Kindle

My music:

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I’ve recently been listening to pretty much every album by Keith and Kelly Getty on Spotify, on repeat, non-stop. Their lyrics get me every time, and add that to their amazing musical abilities just makes the combo unstoppable. Literally, can’t pause the songs, or stop, playing all. the. time.

See a theme?
This is my life. It’s not about me, or my kids, or my husband. It’s all about God. Always has been from eternity past, and will be forever. Who am I to demand otherwise?

Soli Deo Gloria